Dear miss

Dear miss,

Why do you keep complaining about your lover and yet still stick together with him?Since you are with him,you should be not complaining -_-''' Either you get him to change the part you dislike or get lost,no use complaining to me...
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I can't stand listening to couple complaining about their supposely "better" half,i mean if its your "better" half,why the hell are you complaining so much about?Or could it be that your stages of getting together are all wrong.

1.Liking him
2.Steady
3.KNOWING THE REAL HIM
4.Accept/reject

Its just that damn simple,leave if you have any thoughts of "i am sick and tired".Don't ask anyone for opinion,you only have one life,its your choice.

Another friend of mine told me that he hang on to his gal because he is scared of being alone and cannot get another one...*faints* I wonder when you get really old and decided that enough is enough and you two arn't really meant for each other,what would you feel?That you end the pityful relationship earlier and carry on with your life,hopefully meet one that is meant for you?

People that complain to me,i usually group them into two sub groups.Those that have went steady for a long period of time and those that went steady for just few months like one or two.For those in the first group,if it took you this long enough to notice their fault,i would say that you are quite well,you two should be able to change for each other and carry on.However for those in the second group,i would advise you to look closely at the relationship.Just because you got into this relation not long,the feeling is still strong and you can't bear to part away,but you should think logically.Do you want to be with this person you are with,because you think you like him?Yup i uses the word think,in any relation first you would think you like that person before any advances are make.You may think you like that person,but in a relationship this short,its your mind thinking only,not really your heart.Those that have been in a longer term relation,i would say their heart have taken over already,unless you are of those weak minded people who hang on for nothing worthwhile.

I guess only those outside a relationship would talk like me,carefree and without a worry...but like a pharse used by this lady in a chinese story i ready

"Long pain no better than short pain,let me be the ender of this pain"

Now that is so in style,wish i could have a gal like that!

*looking around for that ever fleeting woman in my life*